Pain in a relationship!!!

We all undergo some kind of pain in our some or almost every relationships. We desire love, care, and much needed warmth in a relation. No relationship is perfect same as we individuals. We try to achieve that perfection by growing in the relation. Its always the imperfection that makes a perfect relation. You grow in the relationship the way a plant is grown with lots of effort so that once its reaped, it will start giving you the much awaited fruits.

There is a time in a relationship when you scream and crave for attention. You expect something but you do not get the same results all the time. You feel suffocated and ditched. You start assuming many things without any basis.There is a time in every relation when its just on the verge of dying. That is the time where you have to rejuvenate it the way a plant is survived by proper nurturing and nourishment.You need to realise that its not the breaking point but actually the threshold point from where the actual relation begins to grow. You realise the importance of the person with whom you have spent all your happy and sad moments. You understand the importance of him or her in your life. As its the human tendency that we always remember the negatives of a person rather than the positives on a long term association, if we come across a sudden upheaval or crack in our relation.It makes you to feel more bitter and resentful.But the fact is to see the bigger picture and longevity of your happy moments which you had shared together.

It is not the small pains and pleasures which breaks or makes a relationship but the ultimate happiness to live your whole life with someone who is with you forever to hold your hand.